married life

Episode #119: Let's Talk Polyamory | A Conversation Around Perception With My Husband

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In todays episode of our “Let’s Talk Polyamory” series of the podcast, we deep dive into all things perception. I get asked about this all of the time and I get it — I was wildly concerned about how I would be perceived / the reactions my friends and family would have before coming out as polyamorous. Not to mention how it would impact my online presence and beyond.

So we deep dive into all of that.

Tune in to todays episode to hear all about:

  • how we both felt about how we would be perceived before we came out as poly

  • the reactions of our friends and family

  • the mis-perceptions around ethical non monogamy & polyamory

  • how our own perceptions and biases around the things we are pulled towards can produce massive feelings of fear and shame

  • the root of why fear of perception has impacted us individually and beyond

Episode #62: What It Takes To Make A Relationship Work with my husband

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Do relationships take work or should they be seamless? There’s a shit ton of debate about this and today, I’ve brought on a super special guest to dig into the age old question — my husband!

We are certainly not experts when it comes to relationships — you can listen to a bunch of previous podcast episodes around relationships, sex and beyond — but I do think that almost 10 years of going through the shit with a human entitles us to have some shit to say that’s worth sharing. And hell, we are DEFINITELY experts on our relationship.

And today on the podcast, we deep dive into some pretty dense topics around relationship longevity, health and beyond and I am THE MOST excited to share this conversation with you all.

Things we discuss on todays episode:

  • The real story of how we met

  • The crazy story of how and why we got legally married (our first wedding!)

  • Our differing perspectives on marriage

  • The concept of possession in intimate relationships

  • How to keep a relationship thriving

LINKS MENTIONED IN TODAY’S EPISODE:

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Episode #40: Breaking free of your money blocks and the smart way to save with Alli Owen

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“Money can buy you so much freedom,

and it’s really important to align your spendings to your values.”

Alli Owen is a recovering engineer and overachiever, learning to live her truth every single day. Lately, it looks like helping other people align their finances to their values so they can have more freedom in their life.

Things we discuss in today’s episode:

  • Why so many of us feel the need to live up to society’s expectations instead of following their truth

  • Making 100k a year doesn’t necessarily equate happiness

  • How she and her husband quit their jobs to travel the world

  • How to know the next steps to take in your life when you’re unhappy with where you’re at

  • How to save for retirement/getting out of debt NOW

  • The FIRE movement

  • How she went from spending all the money she earned to saving 70% of what she’s making

  • Optimizing your expenses to maximize your happiness and buy your freedom

  • The #1 question you can ask yourself to launch yourself into a positive money mindset

  • Living in a van for 6 months

  • Where to start with your finances and actually make headway in a tangible way

LINKS DISCUSSED IN TODAY’S EPISODE:

TEAMI BLENDS TEAS — use code LYFYL for 15% off your purchase

Get access to their own your debt FREE webinar: ownyourdebtcourse.com/webinar

Website: owenyourfuture.com | Instagram

10 minute money checklist- owenyourfuture.com/money-checklist

FIRE

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